The do's and don'ts of choosing hostess outfits
Theo Pace
Holiday celebrations may look a little different this year, but that doesn't mean you can't still safely get together with your friends and family. If you're anything like me, you take the term "hostess with the mostest" seriously and love to entertain for any reason – or even when there's no reason at all! There's just something about having all your loved ones gathered together in your home, sharing a meal and reminiscing over drinks, all while you run around doting on them, topping off drinks and socializing your way around the room.
This may not surprise you, but one of my favorite things about holiday get-togethers is the festive outfits. Red and gold and all things glitzy are synonymous with the holidays, and everyone looks fabulous decked out for the celebrations. Plus, we don't get many excuses to dress like that throughout the year, so I really enjoy taking advantage of it.
There is one minor drawback to entertaining, however: oftentimes, I find myself scrambling to get ready at the last minute. I spend so much time making sure all the party details are just right, that I end up racing against the clock trying to get dressed before guests arrive. Does that sound familiar?
I find that it's extremely helpful to have an arsenal of go-to "hostess outfits." These are outfits that look completely polished and put-together, yet are totally effortless and extremely comfortable.
Like so many other aspects of fashion, there aren't many hard-and-fast rules when it comes to hostess outfits. They should just be simple and make you look your best! However, I do have some tips and tricks up my sleeve to make it easier for you to piece them together.
Do wear something you already own and love
I know it's tempting to go out and buy something brand new for the occasion, but I don't recommend it because you don't know if that something is comfortable or not. You don't want to spend the evening constantly adjusting a strap, tugging at a waistband that rides up, or much worse, dealing with an unexpected wardrobe malfunction. If you really want something new, I suggest buying a festive cardigan or kimono to go over your dress, or a new pair of earrings that perfectly complement your outfit.
Do keep it simple
Holiday outfits tend to have fancy details like balloon sleeves and tie waists. Although beautiful, these things can spell disaster for a hostess. Imagine your sleeve dipping into guests' drinks and getting your belt caught in the oven door! Opt for clothing with no-fuss details and save the elaborate pieces for when you're someone else's guest. The same goes for jewelry – skip the long, dangly necklace and wear a pair of statement earrings instead.
Do dress in cool, breathable layers
Even if you live in a very cold climate, I recommend dressing in short sleeves (or even no sleeves) and adding a sweater, duster, or jacket. Since you'll be on the move all night, you'll get warm. The last thing you want is to feel like you're overheating! Using this strategy allows you to keep warm when you need to and remove your outer layer at your convenience.
Do dress for the occasion
If you're hosting a casual cookout for a small group, wear pants and a nice blouse or a jumpsuit – not an evening gown. On the other hand, if your guests are coming over for a seated dinner party or a themed New Year's Eve party, it's perfectly acceptable to wear a sequined dress. Just make sure you communicate with your guests so you're all on the same page. You don't want anyone to be uncomfortable because they showed up under- (or over) dressed.
Don’t wear uncomfortable shoes
Trust me on this one – if you wear those stiletto boots, you'll regret it. Choose an outfit that works well with ballet flats, wedges, or even fun sneakers.
Don’t dress in something too revealing
We all have those sweaters with slightly risque necklines or dresses that are probably just a tad too short. Reserve those for date nights or girlfriend getaways and spare your party guests from an unexpected "show." Remember, you'll be moving around, bending over, and reaching all evening.
Don’t choose anything that requires dry cleaning
The odds of something spilling on you while you're entertaining are high. It's important to be able to quickly duck into the bathroom and attend to the fresh stain, as opposed to needing to excuse yourself to change outfits.
Don’t wear clothes that don’t fit well…
… no matter how much you love them. For one thing, you'll be far more confident and comfortable in something that fits just right. Plus, you don't want to be constantly tripping over pants that need to be hemmed or tugging at a waistband that's a hair too tight.
I hope these tips are helpful! Are you hosting any festivities this year? If so, I want to see your outfits! Tag me in your photos on Instagram @therealchachaolivia and connect with me on Facebook!
Happy Holidays!,